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I Don’t Know
I never questioned that H and I would make it until last August when my world was blown out of the water. Then as I was reeling, H was sure. At least he was sure he wanted to do whatever … Continue reading
Posted in Infidelity
Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, forgiveness, infidelity, marriage, other woman, reconciliation, therapy, unfaithful
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An Update…If Anyone Was Wondering
It’s been a while. I have one draft that needs finishing, but I wanted to just get something out. Maybe it’s all the posts about milestones (6 months post D-Day, 9 months, etc.). I’m am still finding bursts of time … Continue reading
Posted in Infidelity, Marriage Bonding
Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, d-day, d-day2, forgiveness, infidelity, marriage, other woman, reconciliation, self-esteem, therapy, transparency, trigger, trust, unfaithful
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Rant about Fairness
Okay, so this post is going to make me sound whiny, but I want my blog to be authentic so you get the whiny along with the awesome. I feel grumpy and I’m not completely sure why. Well, that’s not true. … Continue reading
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Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, forgiveness, infidelity, marriage, reconciliation, therapy, trust, unfaithful
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Betrayed by My Best Friend
The title of my blog has been gnawing at me for the last week or so. It just dawned on me that perhaps I’m without a best friend for the time being. H was my best friend, but in light of … Continue reading
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Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, forgiveness, friendship, infidelity, marriage, reconciliation, therapy, transparency, trust, unfaithful
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Red-ish Flags and Setting Boundaries
It was our first New Year’s Eve as a couple. H & I hadn’t been together for even a month yet. We went out with a couple of friends to the downtown where a big celebration (with fireworks) was planned. … Continue reading
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Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, flirting, infidelity, marriage, reconciliation, therapy, transparency, unfaithful
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Why Did My Husband Cheat?
Isn’t this the BIG question? I’ve asked “why?” countless times and ways in the last 3 1/2 months. All betrayed spouses seem obsessed with it. After D-Day2 I told H that therapy was required (it had been optional up until that … Continue reading
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Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, d-day, d-day2, hysterical bonding, infidelity, marriage, other woman, reconciliation, therapy, transparency, unfaithful
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To Tell or Not to Tell – Victim #2
I’m taking some time to write about my experiences with telling people about H’s infidelity. This is the second post so if you missed Victim #1, go here: To Tell or Not to Tell – Victim #1 Victim #2 Soon … Continue reading
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Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, infidelity, marriage, therapy, unfaithful
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Processing a Near Miss vs a Direct Hit
http://longtimemending.wordpress.com/2012/11/27/near-misses-2/ The above post is by a blogger I just discovered yesterday. His writing style makes me giggle because he is a bit all over the place. I like him because he just seems really genuine. I really didn’t connect … Continue reading
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Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, infidelity, marriage, other woman, reconciliation, therapy, transparency, trigger, unfaithful
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Choosing Fight over Flight
If you remember from Story of a Betrayal Part 2 I had just found out from snooping (ugh, I hate that) that H had sex with a new-ish friend 4 days after our D-Day at the big event we were attending … Continue reading
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Tagged betrayal, cheating, d-day, d-day2, infidelity, no contact, reconciliation, therapy
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