Tag Archives: d-day2

An Update…If Anyone Was Wondering

Posted on March 27, 2013 by specklier

It’s been a while. I have one draft that needs finishing, but I wanted to just get something out. Maybe it’s all the posts about milestones (6 months post D-Day, 9 months, etc.). I’m am still finding bursts of time … Continue reading →

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Why Did My Husband Cheat?

Posted on December 16, 2012 by specklier

Isn’t this the BIG question? I’ve asked “why?” countless times and ways in the last 3 1/2 months. All betrayed spouses seem obsessed with it. After D-Day2 I told H that therapy was required (it had been optional up until that … Continue reading →

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To Tell or Not to Tell – Victim #3

Posted on December 9, 2012 by specklier

I thought I was done telling after Victim #2 (which was really 2 victims) – here is that story: To Tell or Not to Tell – Victim #2 I have a friend I met in graduate school. She was one … Continue reading →

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Choosing Fight over Flight

Posted on November 14, 2012 by specklier

If you remember from Story of a Betrayal Part 2 I had just found out from snooping (ugh, I hate that) that H had sex with a new-ish friend 4 days after our D-Day at the big event we were attending … Continue reading →

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Story of the Betrayal Part 2

Posted on November 7, 2012 by specklier

As I was saying in Story of the Betrayal Part 1, H & I were attached at the hip in the aftermath of D-Day, which was the first day of this big event we do every year. Did I mention … Continue reading →

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