Tag Archives: trust

The Other Woman’s Other Woman

Posted on September 16, 2015 by specklier

I am clearly not writing regularly anymore, but I just had to post about this new development. Just to recap, I am over 3 years post D-Day and D-Day 2 and I continue to participate in the event where H … Continue reading →

Posted in Infidelity | Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, forgiveness, infidelity, karma, marriage, other woman, reconciliation, transparency, trust, unfaithful | 5 Comments

This Too Will Pass

Posted on January 29, 2014 by specklier

I think this is a goodbye of sorts. It’s been so long since I wrote that I’m sure many of you have forgotten me. Sadly I continue seeing new blogs with all too familiar infidelity themes, but I applaud the … Continue reading →

Posted in Infidelity | Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, d-day, forgiveness, infidelity, marriage, other woman, reconciliation, transparency, trust, unfaithful | 2 Comments

An Update…If Anyone Was Wondering

Posted on March 27, 2013 by specklier

It’s been a while. I have one draft that needs finishing, but I wanted to just get something out. Maybe it’s all the posts about milestones (6 months post D-Day, 9 months, etc.). I’m am still finding bursts of time … Continue reading →

Posted in Infidelity, Marriage Bonding | Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, d-day, d-day2, forgiveness, infidelity, marriage, other woman, reconciliation, self-esteem, therapy, transparency, trigger, trust, unfaithful | 7 Comments

Sex and an Unwelcome “Threesome” in Bed

Posted on March 2, 2013 by specklier

Throughout my relationship with H, we have had oscillating sex drives, often in opposition of each other. In the dating/living together years of our early 20’s, I had the higher drive. It was so frustrating because it was so opposite … Continue reading →

Posted in Infidelity | Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, d-day, hysterical bonding, infidelity, marriage, other woman, reconciliation, self-esteem, trigger, trust, unfaithful | 11 Comments

Rant about Fairness

Posted on January 31, 2013 by specklier

Okay, so this post is going to make me sound whiny, but I want my blog to be authentic so you get the whiny along with the awesome. I feel grumpy and I’m not completely sure why. Well, that’s not true. … Continue reading →

Posted in Infidelity | Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, forgiveness, infidelity, marriage, reconciliation, therapy, trust, unfaithful | 9 Comments

Betrayed by My Best Friend

Posted on January 19, 2013 by specklier

The title of my blog has been gnawing at me for the last week or so. It just dawned on me that perhaps I’m without a best friend for the time being. H was my best friend, but in light of … Continue reading →

Posted in Infidelity | Tagged adultery, betrayal, cheating, communication, forgiveness, friendship, infidelity, marriage, reconciliation, therapy, transparency, trust, unfaithful | 12 Comments

Categorizing Infidelity and Other Thoughts

Posted on January 9, 2013 by specklier

Infidelity, cheating, betrayal, etc. are part of one big, fat, grey line. It’s not black and white. It’s all about personal boundaries, definitions, and expectations. And in a marriage, you have to meld two different perspectives on the issue. I … Continue reading →

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