Tag Archives: marriage

The Other Woman’s Other Woman

Posted on September 16, 2015 by specklier

I am clearly not writing regularly anymore, but I just had to post about this new development. Just to recap, I am over 3 years post D-Day and D-Day 2 and I continue to participate in the event where H … Continue reading →

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Acceptance and Moving On

Posted on September 30, 2014 by specklier

Even though I haven’t written in 6 months and most of you have probably forgotten about me, I do still read from time to time. I find it fascinating to watch the cycle of bloggers dropping off the face of … Continue reading →

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This Too Will Pass

Posted on January 29, 2014 by specklier

I think this is a goodbye of sorts. It’s been so long since I wrote that I’m sure many of you have forgotten me. Sadly I continue seeing new blogs with all too familiar infidelity themes, but I applaud the … Continue reading →

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Being the Other Woman

Posted on August 8, 2013 by specklier

Guess what? I have been the dreaded other woman before. After all my posting about being betrayed by my best friend (it’s so dramatic isn’t it?) I thought I should come clean. My very first experience as the “other woman” … Continue reading →

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I Don’t Know

Posted on July 23, 2013 by specklier

I never questioned that H and I would make it until last August when my world was blown out of the water. Then as I was reeling, H was sure. At least he was sure he wanted to do whatever … Continue reading →

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An Update…If Anyone Was Wondering

Posted on March 27, 2013 by specklier

It’s been a while. I have one draft that needs finishing, but I wanted to just get something out. Maybe it’s all the posts about milestones (6 months post D-Day, 9 months, etc.). I’m am still finding bursts of time … Continue reading →

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Sex and an Unwelcome “Threesome” in Bed

Posted on March 2, 2013 by specklier

Throughout my relationship with H, we have had oscillating sex drives, often in opposition of each other. In the dating/living together years of our early 20’s, I had the higher drive. It was so frustrating because it was so opposite … Continue reading →

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Marriage is Hard, but Infidelity is Harder

Posted on February 11, 2013 by specklier

Will H’s infidelity end up being the best thing that happened to our marriage? I know, the absolute BEST thing would have been if he didn’t cheat and instead he opened up to me about his struggles and then we … Continue reading →

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Rant about Fairness

Posted on January 31, 2013 by specklier

Okay, so this post is going to make me sound whiny, but I want my blog to be authentic so you get the whiny along with the awesome. I feel grumpy and I’m not completely sure why. Well, that’s not true. … Continue reading →

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Betrayed by My Best Friend

Posted on January 19, 2013 by specklier

The title of my blog has been gnawing at me for the last week or so. It just dawned on me that perhaps I’m without a best friend for the time being. H was my best friend, but in light of … Continue reading →

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